Happy Birthday G!
G on our deck after our good friend D decorated it!
Time sure does fly when you are having fun {[(or you don’t sleep) or you change smelly diapers] or you imitate Elmo..ALL..DAY..LONG}.
So I thought why not write a bit about how fast G is growing up and how I have seen this progression over time.
Lets go back a few months and look at a seemingly calm Tuesday evening (Yes, I do remember the exact day) when G came home with a new word added to her vocabulary. She kept using the word that sounded something like ‘nay powish’ and I was very confused. I asked her what she was saying but, surprise surprise, she wasn’t giving me a break down.
I tried a different approach and asked WHERE this ‘nay powish’ was. Success! My eyes moved in on the target and my face turned white. Was my 18 months old daughter running around with NAIL POLISH on her fingers!? To put it bluntly: YES!
..and the years in my mind passed oh so quick..G going to school, graduating from college, getting married. NO NO NO! This is my little girl and she is not allowed to grow up! This is going wwwaaayyyyy too fast!
As if I ever had a chance against her. Her stubbornness is too much for me to handle ( I somehow feel like my mother always said something along the lines of  “You are so stubborn! I can’t wait until you have a kid that won’t take no for an answer!”  You know what they say about karma).  She has not missed a week without new nail polish on her fingers and has recently decided that her toe nails need painting as well. In addition to that she is obsessed with all of MAMA’s nail polish AND jewelry. She will sit on the floor with all the different nail polishes and all of her mothers jewelry in all colors count them and  name the colors and you better not try touching them in her presence – and I quote ‘ THIS MINE!’
Left: G playing in her favorite spot with all the jewelry from our bedroom. Middle: G coming home with nail polish on her fingers for the first time (I am scarred). Right: G once again very into her jewelry. Clearly worn best topless.
1-0 G
G has also always been a fan of coloring. Whether with crayons, pencils or finger paint, she is in. Of course coloring is something that she can’t do whenever or wherever she wants and so N and I made it very clear that she has to ask nicely when she wants to color and can only do this by a table or on the floor (NOT on the carpets). Also, one needs to always color on the paper and no where else.  So far so good. She likes to color and her parents put rules in place >> not that shocking. It wasn’t until she started ‘connecting the dots’ that I realized how grown up she is and what a sneaky and funny girl we have at our disposal.
One day I came home to find G coloring. The innocent look on her face. She wouldn’t hurt a fly and simply wants Big Bird to be as yellow as she can make him. So, I walk into the kitchen and lo and behold the pillar has crayon on it. Huh? Who did this? Am I blind? I move on and notice the same coloring scheme  on the stairs.
pillars, stairs, walls covered in beautiful crayon colors…
Uh oh!
“G!”, the first and only word to come out of my mouth as I hear a little bang and see a little girl approaching. Looking great as always she smiles at me showing me the yellow crayon in her hands and simply says “PAPI!”
“G, why is there crayon on the walls and on the stairs!?”, I ask while pointing to the different colors to make sure she understands. She looks at me for a second before turning to the wall and saying with full conviction “Papi, no color! Only on the paper!” HUH? Is this some trick? It sure does seem like she did understand the rule and that we ONLY color on the paper. But then! Just a moment later it all falls into place. As she moves to the steps with her yellow crayon in her hand and starts coloring on the step. I , in utter disbelief of her boldness to do this in front of me, just stand and watch as she scribbles for a moment before turning to me, pointing at the color and shouting “Papi!! no color! ONLY ON THE PAPER!”
She has become the parent. Wanting to make sure I understood the rule she felt the need to illustrate it. It took me a while to make sure she stops illustrating the rules we put in place but thankfully ever since walls, steps and co. have been color free.
What a good listener…finally!
I still think this one goes to G just because she is witty and funny and in the end did color on my walls and my steps.
2-0 G
Another thing that comes with being a parent is discipline. There comes the point when the not listening, despite still being very cute, needs to be addressed. When G deliberately acts contrary to given instructions she is old enough to learn that that doesn’t fly anymore. Especially with school coming up sooner than one thinks. I can’t have her teacher call me up every other day telling me things like ‘ I told the kids that we don’t use scissors but later found G cutting off someones finger’ . To avoid horror scenarios like that we instituted the famous ‘Time Out’.
She gets one warning and if things don’t change she is taken to the ‘step of doom’ where she has to sit and listen until she accepts to cooperate. She hates going there and starts crying when we put her down but it has worked and she tends to not repeat bad behavior or to not do bad things in the first place when faced with the step of doom.
2-1
After all it is just cuckoo to see how fast my little munchkin is growing up. It seems as if it was just yesterday when I would need to get up at 4 am to heat up a bottle for her and today she has her broccoli (is that weird!? She LOVES it), french fries and sushi (yes, she has gourmet tastes).
She has her gangs that she hangs out with at the park and her princesses that go wherever she goes. This all just happens so fast. I am trying to embrace it and enjoy it but every now and then I simply rub my eyes and when I open them back up  I notice how my kid is a completely new person. Just crazy!
princesses, dolls, friends and sushi! What else could one wish for!
She might have new favorite foods and like to play with different toys but she will always be my little princess and as a quote goes that I just came across:
“It doesn’t matter what’s in front of her as long as she knows who’s behind her.”
Well, I will always be.
#Papiselfie