Hey Guys and Gals!
Several thrours have passed and I am still on the ground ready to report on my findings..
[In case you are wondering, I don’t think in days anymore. That is much too far ahead. If you think in days how are you ever going to feel accomplished and positive at the end of the day? TWENTY FOUR HOURS with a toddler? No way you come out ahead when the time comes for you to hit the sack. So, I think in hourly blocks, like every 3 hour block that G and I have crossed is another great finish line I can cross off a.k.a throur (Three Hour Block). I should patent that.]
So I left off with having prepared her room for bed time. Ill explain what that means. What usually happens is the following:
At around 7:10 pm N will say “Do you want to fill up the humidifier or change her diaper?” It’s one of those things that really doesn’t need to be asked over and over, night after night but it does. It reminds me of one of N’s friends that once told me how growing up whenever her father would come home (day after day) , his wife would jump up and ask the father if we wanted something to drink or to eat. And the father would simply respond (day after day) “Please, I just want to sit down and relax for a few minutes.” Similar idea here; you don’t have to keep asking. I am more then happy to fill up the humidifier every night 🙂
Boy do I keep going off on tangents today. Sorry everybody!
So I went to fill up the humidifier (something to help with dry skin or so. What do I know what this machine is for.) and brought it up. I then turned on the fan in her room. You ask ‘Why would he do that in the winter?’ Well, we live in a beautiful house with a nice backyard with one tiny problem. JFK is literally NEXT DOOR.
These planes just don’t stop. It’s like counting the stars. IMPOSSIBLE
What that means is that every morning, somewhere between 5-5:30 AM when the planes start becoming more frequent it can cause G to wake up. She might fall back asleep but with the amount of planes coming into JFK by the fourth plane she is up! That is obviously less then ideal for us and we have thought about different options to avoid that. Ordering speakers and playing some rain forrest music for example (I really want that in my room but N thinks I am crazy. Can someone convince her please!? Just post a comment “pro rain forest music in your bedroom” and the most compelling reason will win a special mention in my next post =)). So we decided to go with the fan. The only problem is that she really doesn’t like the noise that the fan makes. Same goes with the noise the vacuum makes (All very dog-like fears from what I recall..hmm..). But I decided to still turn it on and stick with it as I think that having a constant noise is better then having the planes at 5:30 AM wake her. Hopefully she will get used to it.
So where was I? Right! Humidifier is in place ✓ Fan is turned on ✓ Next…
So once she is up (at like 5:30 AM), N and I would really enjoy and appreciate it if instead of standing up and screaming for us (let’s be real here, for ‘MAMA’) she would maybe just take a chill pill, relax and play with a toy. This is where I decided to use this opportunity to try out something new.
I decided to put a nightlight in place. Up until now we hadn’t used any lights and made sure to have black out shades on all the windows. We wanted to make sure that whenever it starts getting light outside she is under no circumstances influenced by that and keeps on sleeping. But, as mentioned above, what started happening was that she started waking up early again. It’s just TOO EARLY! I mean if I could sign off on having her wake up at 6 AM sharp everyday I totally would.
So I figured, if she will most likely wake up early anyways why not try to get some more sleep by putting a light in place and prepare some of her favorite toys and maybe she will decide to play a bit!?
Little Pim Cards. For some reason her FAVORITE cards to play with. Stacking them up and talking to the Panda.
So I tied them up to a string which I then tied to the crib. I made sure that it is in eyesight should she wake up in the morning and felt very good about my amazing plan!
So finally it was all set. Humidifier ✓, Fan ✓, night light ✓, cards ✓
Fan on the left, Humidifier to the right of it, night light turned ON and string in crib after cards have been ‘misplaced’
So, what happened?
It BACKFIRED! Miserably!
At one point during the night (well really it was about 4:40 AM) something woke her. [If I knew what, I would KILL it] The night light in the room then ensured that she wasn’t falling back asleep anymore and off she went “AHHHH AAAHHH AAAAHHHH ‘cry cry cry’ AAAHHHH” I obviously woke up and looked, half asleep, at the clock and said “Perfect – 5:40 AM. Terrbile, but nothing unusual. Now lets hope she finds the cards and plays a bit.” And then I looked again…
4:40 AM NOT 5:40 AM – WHAT! WHAT IS GOING ON!? Is this some sort of punishment for being alone with her? She NEVER wakes up this early. So? What did I do? Put the earplugs back in and beg that something happens. Well, it didn’t and by 5:10 AM I was out of bed and in her room getting her out of her crib.
What happened to the cards you ask? They weren’t attached to the string anymore but I guess that just wasn’t good enough of a toy for her at 4:40 AM. #Thumbsdown
Fine – what can you do? It happened and it was time to move on to better things. So we are downstairs and after a while I remembered N mentioning something about always having G’s hair in some type of a pony tail. Why? I don’t know, ask her yourself if you’re interested. But I obviously have to try to oblige by the rules. So I am looking for a ..hmmm.. what are those things called?! [2 minutes later after googling it] Rubber bands I guess. I obviously cannot find one for the life of me. Then I suddenly remember! #lightbulbgoingoff She needs a ponytail because her hair constantly lands in her face and G doesn’t isn’t really a fan of that!
I have a better solution for that! Who needs a rubber band when Gel can do the same job!
Left: Before Center: In the process Right: After [Disclaimer: I did not use a ton of gel as I wanted to make sure I don’t do something completely crazy that I might get killed for after]
Come on! It isn’t that bad, is it!?
Off we were to breakfast.
I asked her if she wanted a yoghurt that I had especially bought for her. Of course she was interested and had to open the fridge herself and get it out. How dare I be the one to touch the yoghurt. That right is only reserved for her. So I wanted to put her in her high chair so she can eat the yoghurt while I accompany her. No no no..not exactly the way she likes to roll. SHE is the one that has to sit in the actual chair at the head of the table and no other way works for her.. Fine..you win!..Big chair it is..
Now we get to the funny part. I open the yoghurt for her and she starts eating. So far so good. Suddenly I notice her stopping to eat and start starring. I mean SERIOUS staring. She couldn’t get her eyes off that yoghurt. And suddenly she opened her mouth “MAMA! MAMA MAMA MAMA!”
And I’m like HUH!? What in the world would make her think of N while eating the yoghurt?!
Analyzing the yoghurt before shouting ‘MAMA’
So after another moment [I was having a minor heart attack at the time] she decided to let it go and continue with the actual plan, EAT the yoghurt. It took a while until I figured it out though. It was when the yoghurt was turned and I was able to see the other side of it that it all became clear to me. A mother with a child on the yoghurt was what had set off the alarm bells. ROOKIE MISTAKE! I plan every family portrait removal into detail and then buy yoghurts that have mothers on them!? Come on B, I expected more from you!
[BTW – that picture above, with her analyzing the yoghurt; that is the moment I realized that my ‘Gel instead of ponytail’ idea was (sadly) not going to work. It was just ALL OVER her face..]
Left: Finally discovered the reason >> a MAMA on the yoguhrt (not that N looks anything like this). Right: G eating her yummy yoghurt
On a side note, I am very happy that she likes her yoghurt. She used to love it and then suddenly got out of it for a while (several months in which she didn’t want to touch it). But now she is back on it and loves it (sometimes). It is a great way to get your dairy in and hey, you know what they say about eating yoghurt..
Hmm..nothing too amazing I guess..
Well time flew by and before I knew it the clock struck 8:15 AM. Ding Dong – the housekeeper is here! 🙂 For the days that N was out of town I was working/am working from home. So what that meant is that it was time to go into hiding.
When N or I are around G needs to spend time with us. Even if the housekeeper is around she (obviously) prefers having us play with her. Are we happy about that? OF COURSE we are! What’s wrong with you guys? Do you really think we are that terrible and want to hide from her just because we can?
It is more about the fact that when I am working, I am working. Sorry G but I can’t just come and play with horses and read books to you during work. Also, if she sees me, she tends to get very insulted when I don’t play with her and simply leave a few minutes later to go back to work. So to make that easier and avoid a sad little toddler I barricade myself in my room and try not to leave until she is either napping or is out of the house (or my day is over).
It is great! I mean that is why I bought a house right?! To have more space and not have to live out of a bedroom (being sarcastic ✓).
Me working from my bedroom a.k.a prisoner in my own room
The rest of the day went by smoothly. She behaved, I worked and by the end of the day I decided to reward myself and her for no particular reason and wanted to have a fun and enjoyable dinner with her.
I went out and got us burgers (more like 1 burger for ME), and made some homemade french fries and got her some chicken which she likes and we had a blast! I know you’ll think “but didn’t he say he tries to keep it healthy?! French fries are as bad as candy!..” you know what, you are probably right but once in a while I treat my funny baby G to some french fries! Sue me! Plus, you know what A.A. Milne always said: “What I say is that, if a man really likes potatoes, he must be a decent sort of fellow.”
[In case you wonder about my extensive knowledge of food quotes – I love food. And great quotes like these justify my love of food even more :)]
Left: her munching on her french fries. Right: Her being super excited about discovering the french fries.
After dinner I creamed her with some Aquaphor and Vicks (this weird cough she has just isn’t going away) and bedtime it was.
This time around there was no messing around or playing games. No nightlight, no fan and no cards! Just a good old pitch black room with no noise at all.
How that went and other highlights from the weekend and my last few days in the next (and maybe last) part of the Survival Series.
Cya later..